PANDANGAN HUKUM ISLAM TERHADAP ADAT SUNDRANG DALAM PERKAWINAN: STUDI KASUS DI DESA PAJENANGGER, KECAMATAN ARJASA, KABUPATEN SUMENEP

Abstract

This study examines the implementation of the Sundrang (gift) in weddings in Pajenanger Village, a mandatory gift from the prospective groom to the prospective bride's parents. The nominal amount is determined by the bride's parents and can reach tens of millions, even hundreds of millions. Sundrang cannot be ignored, as it has become a tradition that must be carried out. This study examines the implementation of the Sundrang custom in weddings as part of a local tradition that remains preserved to this day as a symbol of respect and appreciation. From an Islamic legal perspective, the implementation of Sundrang is acceptable as long as it does not conflict with Islamic law, does not involve coercion, and does not alter the pillars and requirements for a valid marriage. This research is descriptive, conducted in the field using descriptive qualitative methods. The approach used is empirical, with data sources including primary and secondary data. Data collection techniques were conducted through observation, interviews, and documentation. The research results show that the Sundrang tradition in Pajenangger Village, Arjasa District, Sumenep Regency, involves the woman determining and negotiating the amount the groom must prepare for the bride. Given the high monetary burden placed on this tradition, it falls under the category of 'urf fasid', meaning its harmful effects outweigh its benefits.